Estranged Stories

Understanding. Support. Peace. Hope.

A place for people experiencing estrangement or cut off from their family to find support, hopefully peace, and some understanding.

Estranged Stories is now a non profit entity. We have received our 501(c)3 status so any donations to Estranged Stories are tax deductable. We now have the ability to apply for grants, to partner in research and to provide resources for help.

As we head toward another summer's end, Estranged Stories continues to have expenses. I know people are stretched, but I haven't been able to switch to the new platform as I ran out of development dollars. If you have any room in your budget this year -- please think of Estranged Stories!

THANK YOU to those that supported us and especially to those that created monthly on going donations! 

BREAKING NEWS!!!

FINALLY FINISHED OUR FIRST ESTRANGED STORIES BOOK! THANKS TO ALL WHO HELPED ME WITH THIS.  ALL PROFITS GO TO HELP ESTRANGEDSTORIES GROW. This is the EBook Link:
There is a completely confidential survey for Parents that are Estranged from their Adult Children and there is a a survey for Adult Children. I urge all of you to take the time to answer honestly! If there are ever going to be answers or help for this issue.. we need everyone's participation! Thank you in advance for your time!
UPDATE
I am also interested in the family patterns of estrangement. I have created a very short set of questions. Even if you have previously taken the main survey, I would appreciate your additional contribution to further our understanding of this issue. Please see the link below.

Take the Parents Estranged from Adult Children survey now.
Take the Adult Children Estranged from Parents survey now.
Take the Family Patterns Survey now

Survey results as of 07_2018

Parents_Survey_7_2018.pdf

AdultChild_Summary_7_2018.pdf

Generations_7_2018.pdf

PRIVACY NOTE

The Material on this site is for the express personal use of approved members.
Any words written or original videos posted may NOT be duplicated without written consent.
The Material on this site is not available for research ideas, books, TV Casting, etc.
Any questions concerning the use of this site.. please contact site creator.

Members

Books

Nobody Home: A Memoir

Childhood Unbound: The Powerful New Parenting Approach That Gives Our 21st Century Kids the Authority, Love, and Listening They Need to Thrive

 

Connecting With Our Children : Guiding Principles for Parents in a Troubled World

The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement

Too Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age

Healing From Family Rifts : Ten Steps to Finding Peace After Being Cut Off From a Family Member

When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along


I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation


Family Estrangements: How They Begin, How to Mend Them, How to Cope with Them


Letting Go of Our Adult Children: When What We Do Is Never Enough


FRAGMENTED FAMILIES: Patterns of Estrangement and Reconciliation


Walking on Eggshells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents, by Jane Isay

For Mothers of Difficult Daughters; How to Enrich and Repair the Relationship in Adulthood, by Charney Herst

When You and Your Mother Can't Be Friends: Resolving the Most Complicated Relationship of Your Life, by Victoria Secunda

I'm OK, You're My Parents : How to Overcome Guilt, Let Go of Anger, and Create a Relationship That Works, by Dale Atkins

Making Peace with Your Parents, by Harold Bloomfield MD

Making Peace With Your Adult Children: A Guide to Family Healing, by Shauna Smith

Forgive Your Parents, Heal Yourself: How Understanding Your Painful Family Legacy Can Transform Your Life

Everything Has Two Handles: The Stoic's Guide to the Art of Living

Triangles: Bowen Family Systems Theory Perspectives

Extraordinary Relationships: A New Way of Thinking About Human Interactions

 

Latest Activity

Mary Louise Robitaille replied to Mary Louise Robitaille's discussion The Lack of A Strong Father Figure May Be Something We Are Overlooking To Help Explain The Rise Of Estrangement
"C Hope, thank you for sharing from your own personal experience which does not reflect…"
19 hours ago
C-Hope replied to Mary Louise Robitaille's discussion The Lack of A Strong Father Figure May Be Something We Are Overlooking To Help Explain The Rise Of Estrangement
"Mary Louise, Lack of a strong father figure could be a part of it, but perhaps it's a…"
yesterday
Sharan replied to Mary Louise Robitaille's discussion The Lack of A Strong Father Figure May Be Something We Are Overlooking To Help Explain The Rise Of Estrangement
"thank you for widening our perspective on estrangement.  I know from my experience, I had a…"
Monday
Rosemary's Baby replied to C-Hope's discussion Sending Cards and Gifts? Your Thoughts?
"Calm abiding, in regards to your name change, all is well, no worries and what a great reason -- as…"
Monday
calm abiding replied to Rosemary's Baby's discussion UNTIL TODAY! By Iyanla Vanzant
"Every new discussion I open I am greeted by such incredible insight and wisdom. I feel compelled to…"
Monday
calm abiding replied to PD's discussion Update On My Attempt At Reconciliaiton
"Thank you for pointing these out!"
Monday
calm abiding replied to C-Hope's discussion Sending Cards and Gifts? Your Thoughts?
"Hi YW. Changed my screen name from Peace + harmony to something more appropriate- Calm Abiding. I…"
Monday
Yvette White replied to C-Hope's discussion Sending Cards and Gifts? Your Thoughts?
"Whatever works for you, peace + harmony.  As your (E)D has come and gone over the years, she…"
Sunday

Forum

Sending Cards and Gifts? Your Thoughts? 29 Replies

Started by C-Hope in Parents Estranged from Children. Last reply by Rosemary's Baby on Monday.

UNTIL TODAY! By Iyanla Vanzant 18 Replies

Started by Rosemary's Baby in Parents Estranged from Children. Last reply by calm abiding on Monday.

Update On My Attempt At Reconciliaiton 22 Replies

Started by PD in Parents Estranged from Children. Last reply by calm abiding on Monday.

What Exactly Does Self-Love and Self-Care Look Like To You? 10 Replies

Started by Rosemary's Baby in Parents Estranged from Children. Last reply by Rosemary's Baby on Thursday.

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Mission Statement

This site does not condone rudeness to anyone.

You may or may not agree, but I am interested in promoting support, understanding of our situations, and hopefully this will help some heal.  I realize that some need more time than others to progress, but with so many people on the site, in order to be effective, I believe that the best use of this site .... recognizing the selflessness of those who are willing to spend the time to read and respond... that the following is appropriate when…

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Quotes To Remember

"Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending."



"The better you feel, the better chance you have of a life without her and actually the better chance you have of a life with her."



"Whether you think you can or think you can't, either way you are right" - Henry Ford



Even if you're on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there. - Will… Continue

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